About $ 20 million. That is what, according to some calculations, moves the swingers market niche a year, that is: those people who, in one way or another, like to practice the exchange of couples . They even organize organized travel and cruise packages governed by swinger rules. This shows to what extent the exchange of couples is a practice that is increasingly widespread throughout the world and, as it could not be less, in cities such as Madrid or Barcelona.
The reason for this increase in exchange clubs and the activities organized around the exchange of couples does not have a unique and irrefutable answer. The main one, however, has to do with the fact that exchange clubs or swinger clubs make it possible for many people to end up or, at least, have the possibility of turning into an erotic fantasy that, according to many surveys and many studies, it is rooted in many people: that of being able to contemplate the scene in which your partner indulges in erotic pleasure to someone outside of it. This, although not exclusively, is one of the things that can be done in a couples swap club, and that, without a doubt, plays in favor of the success of these venues chaired by discretion and respect.
Another reason that plays in favor of exchange clubs is that they can experience experiences that can help limit a concept that, being installed in the life of many couples, often acts as a termite that , patiently, were gnawing at the bases of it. That concept is routine. Caught up in the day-to-day habit, many couples allow themselves to be overcome by it. Others, however, are looking for a way to escape it. For some of these couples, the introduction of erotic toys in the sexual relationship is enough to try to alleviate the devastating effects of the routine. Others, in need of stronger experiences, seek, for example, the type of experiences that can be lived in a swinger club to, with them, overcome that routine and breathe new energy and new airs into the relationship.
By going to the exchange clubs, many couples manage to reinvent the relationship and also achieve, apart from overcoming the routine, three objectives that are usually highlighted by lovers of swinger clubs . The first of these objectives is to increase and strengthen mutual trust within the couple. The second is to improve transparency and communication among its members. The third, for its part, is to encourage desire. Undoubtedly, a partner exchange club can be an ideal place to stimulate libido and inject it with new forces thanks to the high doses of morbid and temptation that can be experienced in these places of which many people speak without knowing about all right what do they mean by doing it.
The rules of the swinger universe
An exchange club is, contrary to what many people may think, a place where very strict rules prevail. Couples (and therefore people) can enjoy absolute freedom in them. But for this freedom to be true and to be fully expressed, it must be delimited and, at the same time, protected by unbreakable rules.
The main of the unshakable rules that govern a swinger club is that of discretion. The places for exchanging couples tend to be, externally, a true reflection of the discretion that must prevail within them. Paraphrasing a phrase that made a fortune in the cinema, what happens in a swinger club remains in that club.
Along with that of mandatory discretion there are two other rules that must be absolutely respected in a couple swap club and that are summarized in two concepts: respect and hygiene. The clearest way to express that respect towards the other is by respecting his sexual will. If he and his partner do not want to exchange with us and ours, that must be accepted without discussion. The no, in terms of sex, and, of course, also within the scope of an exchange club, is always a no. Without nuances.
There is no written rule forcing anyone to have sex with anyone once the door of an exchange club has been breached. Sex will always be an opportunity, no doubt, but it should never be an obligation. The swinger club, in fact, can be an ideal place for a drink. Within the club environment, a couple can feel the rush of morbidity, that excitement mixed with nervousness and temptation that can derive from knowing that the opportunity to live a different and markedly sexual experience is there at hand.
Regardless of the type of partner exchange club visited ( swinger clubs can be on premise , that is, with the possibility of having sexual relations within the premises, and off premise, clubs in which couples only contact to maintain after , if they wish, sexual intercourse in another place), every swinger club has a place, which is usually at the entrance and which usually has more light than the rest of the place, so that couples talk, meet and check if there are affinities between them or, in other words, if the mutual sexual desire takes place to the point that the two couples want to go a little further in their carnal knowledge.
If that desire for knowledge goes further, it must always do so obeying two other mandatory rules within the swinger universe . The first says that no one has the right to break a relationship. The second, that the sex that remains within the scope of the couple's relationship must always be safe sex. To safeguard this second point, the exchange clubs tend to veto their entrance to those people who show evident signs of drunkenness or having consumed any type of drug. Drunk or drugged people, to put it plainly, do not provide the guarantees necessary to practice safe sex. Similarly, it cannot be conceived in a clearly promiscuous environment such as that of the exchange club without the much-praised condom participating in it. The condom is the ideal method to protect ourselves from the contagion of some type of sexually transmitted disease or STD and, therefore, our best friend when we are about to live a complete sexual experience in a partner exchange club.
Environments for all tastes
As we have previously indicated, there are exchange clubs of many kinds. The clearest differentiation between them is the one already indicated between swinger clubs on premise and swinger clubs on premise). But surely we would find, based on their exclusivity, many more. Not all have a jacuzzi, sauna or pool, but some do. And most usually organize themed parties on specific dates.
Within them, there are also areas with different levels of privacy. Getting more or less into them will depend on the will of each couple in question and the type of swinger experience that couple has decided to live. And it is that the experiences of the change of partner can be very different. There are some who can look to watch another couple while they are having sex and they have to like having sex in front of other couples or, as the case may be, participating in group sex sessions. There are supporters of soft swing and there are those who seek to live an experience that has much more to do with full swap. The former will seek to kiss, caress or practice oral sex with a person outside the couple. The second, maintain full relationships with sexual penetration with a person outside the couple.
Undoubtedly, there are partner exchange clubs for all tastes . The key is, once you have decided to go to one, to find the one that suits our tastes.
